The Dance of LOVE VS HATE?

Why does love have to hurt and why does hate have so much more positive sides to it than love… for what is love but nothing more than pain we let ourselves go through over and over again... love comes with fighting, heartbreaks, worry  and even leads to hate while hate stays hate and there's no pain or heartbreak cause you never allow there to be so tell me what do u think is better love or hate???

But I learned that love is the greatest thing on earth. Greatest feeling a human could ever experience and greatest gift you could give.  I learned that love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it... It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more. I learned that love is a glimpse of heaven.

I Believe in Miracles

 

            

SNAIL PHASE

 

                                          

One objective of simplifying your life is to free up time and energy so you can focus these on more important things. Simplifying does not necessarily equate to slowing down your life.  Slowing down is something that must be done as consciously as weeding out the unnecessary stuff.

Here are 5 Good Suggestions to help you slow down:

1) Sit down for meals.    I too am guilty of occasionally eating over the sink-or worse - in the light cast by an open refrigerator door.   This not good for your soul.    Scarfing down food is NOT good for your body.   Take a slower approach.  Set the table.  Chew your food.  Enjoy the flavors.

2) Modify your Morning Routine so you aren't rushing out the door.   Get up 15 minutes earlier and just sit with a hot beverage and your happy thoughts.   Organize as much of the daily preparations as you can the night before- clothes, lunch, breakfast etc.

3) Drive the Speed Limit.   You'll get better gas mileage and you will be least likely to have an accident.   Make zen-like focus your habit when you are in the car.   There is no more important place to be fully present!  Give yourself plenty of time to get there.   If by chance you are late...make a courtesy call your solution; not speed!

4) Take Breaks.   You should not sit at your desk for longer than an hour at a time.   Set your calendar to send you notices each hour to take a break.   Use this time to stretch, use the bathroom, refill your beverage, take a little walk, or simply refocus your eyes.

5) Leave yourself sticky note reminders to slow down.   A few key places to stick these:  on your steering wheel; in a calendar notice (so it pops up on your computer screen); on the bathroom mirror; on the fridge

(REBLOG. credit to My Self Care Blog)

FIRST BEACH ENCOUNTER FOR 2013

Me and my friends planned to go to the beach just to relax, a short get-away from the reality, to get some fresh air and of course to catch up with each other after a very long holiday break. Unfortunately only one of my friends made it but still we continued the plan maybe because we were hungry to to have our first beach experience for 2013 and of course we did not regret it. 

Sea Park Beach Resort

San Fernando La Union

Playing with the sunset was our favorite.

And of course this wont be complete without MORE pictures of us! =)

silently cursing PJ and Sarah for not coming

duck faces

Tara's Jump Shot. lol

Emo mode

Till our next beach encounter. END

MY DATE BOOK!

I haven't had a planner that I really used productively. 

For 2013 I will try to use a planner just in case it will help me to think ahead and to stop procrastination. Maybe if I can look quickly at my calendar and see a list of what I need to be doing, then I might respond much quicker

There are few thing that I want to write on my planner specially that am back in school. 

• homework

• and due dates

• Test dates

• Dances, parties, dates, celebrations

• Family gatherings, vacations, excursions

•  test dates

• Fees—due dates

• things to buy

• things to do

Or simply put everything in my planner. I must remember that anything that takes up time, like a date or a coffee with my friends, will keep me from working on an assignment. If I  don't put these things in my planner as time out, I may not realize how limited my homework time really is. This leads to cramming and all-nighters. haha! Sounds like a real student now huh? yeah. i badly need to do this because I'm planning to get a full load next term, which i wish will really happen.

This planner will be a part of my everyday life. Will carry it with me at all times and remember to check it every morning and every night.

MY PLANNER

 from TOMATO located in Mall of Asia but of course it's also available in their different branches and yeah it's for only 200 pesos

Sorry for the Red envelope right there. It was given by one of my Titos. It's a traditional way of giving money as a Christmas gift.

What I like about this planner is that it has it's own bucket list of things you want to stop doing and places to go to and so on and so forth. 

It has it's own passport as well where in you need to collect stamps from their different stores and as soon as you get 10 stamps you can have their limited edition TOMATO TIME.

they have these discount coupons as well which I'm really happy about. haha.

and this one too STICKERS!!

and a tickler. 

Already filled out my personal information.

looking forward for an amazing, fully organized 2013.

MY OWN WEDDING

I just hosted a wedding reception a while ago and it took me maybe 4 hours to create the program. I think I did great a job for that thinking that it was my first time to host a wedding reception.

I did a lot of hosting already with different events and bigger events, but this one felt different, maybe because the word WEDDING was attached with what I was doing and maybe because you are witnessing how these two people are smiling because they are now officially husband and wife.

 The way they kiss was really adorable. The way they hold each other's hands was inspiring. The way they hug each other was really full of love. 

No woman would not dream to have a perfect wedding with the one they love. It's a fairy tale that they will create under their control. A magical moment that will complete their childhood dreams to be with their Prince Charming.

One day.... I'll surely have mine. My own wedding. My own love story. My own fairy tale. My own Prince Charming.

MY NEXT BOYFRIEND...

A friend fiercely asked me -- "How will it be with your next boyfriend?" for a moment there was silence. It seems like I don't have any idea on how will it be. For a moment it made me think of what it is really to be in a perfect relationship? On a second thought being in a perfect relationship will surely suck because facing the reality is really tough and it wont give you any perfect view specially in love.

Then I smiled... said to myself... "Am I hopeless romantic?" then I argued with myself screaming... "NO!!!! OF COURSE NOT!!!" Maybe, just maybe... the right one for me is just right there and maybe just maybe... my next boyfriend will have these qualities to answer the question "How will it be with my next boyfriend?" And lastly, maybe, just maybe... I badly need to print a picture of this "BAD BOY GUY" tuck it in my closet and use it as a constant reminder of what i really deserve.

MY MASTER LIST

MY NEXT BOYFRIEND...

1. …WILL NOT CHEAT ON ME.

2. ...will have a job.

3. ... will not smoke pots.

4. ...will talk when need arises versus putting it off later.

5. ...will watch NBA with me endlessly.

6. ...will not judge me for watching the TV that much.

7. ...will call and not text.

8. ...will be emotionally mature, available and evolved.

9. ...will know how to manage his money.

10. ...will not be vain.

11. ...will ask me how I’m doing and how my day was and actually care.

12. ...will be content sometimes to spend the whole day in bed watching movies and eating takeout.

13. ...will compliment me every now and then, especially when I’ve made an effort to look nice for a night out.

14. ...will not be an alcoholic.

15. …will have goals, dreams, and the drive to achieve them.

16. …will understand that ‘No’ means ‘No.’

17. …will tell the truth.

18. …will learn how to communicate like an adult.

19. …will actually enjoying spending time with me.

20. ...will be crazy about me as much as I will be about him.

21. ...will not give me restrictions in having and spending my time with my life and friends

22.  …will talk to me when something bothers him.

23. ...will continually surprise me.

24. …will have the ‘we’ team mentality.

25.  …will stay with me through joy and pain.

26. …will have a backbone in the relationship and not be afraid to tell me ‘no.’

27. …will have a great sense of humor, but know when to be serious.

28. …will be more passionate in random moments.

29. …will be able to laugh at himself.

30. …will have a regular sized temper than does not super-size itself randomly.

31.  …will give me space.

32.  …will know what a commitment is and follow up that knowledge with actions that support it.

33.  …will understand that relationships aren't all perfect, and that sometimes fighting can resolve difficult issues.

34. …will not be selfish with his love when things don’t go his way.

35. …will be smart but not snide.

36. ...will be extra romantic to make me smile and love him more.

37. ...will respect me, my family and my friends.

38. ...will go shopping with me.

39. ...will not hate me for spending so much time fixing my clothes, hair and make-up.

40. ...WILL LOVE ME UNCONDITIONALLY.

The Annoying Little Things I Hate

* one word answers after i send you long messages
* squeezing the toothpaste from the middle ! duuh ? Squeeze from the bottom please !
* throw something at me, ( Hand it to me don't throw nothing at me I'm not a dog )
* people who talk through movies.
* coming in my room and leaving my door open when you leave.
* people who keep on bashing my Lebron James.
* if you continue to do something after I had already said stop.
* not appreciating the small things I do.
* asking for advice then get mad or complain when I tell you the truth . Don't ask if you
   can't handle it!

*  tell me how I should live MY life. Your's is what you should be worried about.
* Saying you got something to tell me, then telling me not to mind it anymore or you
   gonna tell me later..
* take my kindness for weakness!
* comparing me to your ex's or other people
* changing the channel while I'm watching 
* when you get drunk and start to act stupid in public (i sometimes do that ! lol )
* pouring a bowl of cereal then find out there's no milk !
* telling me to text u, yet u take yrs to reply back 
* when my body decides to have it's red month on the wrong day
* waiting for a text from someone that I actually want to talk to . *looks at phone ... that
   annoying person texts instead !
* constantly talking during a movie. STFU & let me watch the movie !
* Not flushing the toilet
* im spilling my heart out to you.. and all you gonna say is 'oh, ok' ! 

* is to have me fresh out the shower, get dressed & all dolled up, then sellout last
   minute !
* asking me why I'm mad , when I'm mad..
* when i ask something and just say "bahala ka"
*The need to pee when your nails are still wet and it's taking forever to dry.