If he’s not horny, he’s hungry !!

Most women say that men are only interested in two things:

if he’s not horny

he’s hungry !

I wanna believe that there is more to men than sex and food. i think that a good man is hard to find, not to keep. it is sad that so many women struggle to hold on to some jerk, keep giving an abusive man yet another chance (like forgiving him after you catch him with another woman in your bedroom), physical and emotional abuse, have unprotected sex with some guy while barely knowing his last name, agree to shack up and risk making babies with some loser, all in a pathetic version of a pursuit for love, BUT will resent the hell out of treating a descent, hardworking, caring boyfriend with the thoughtfulness attention, respect, and affection he needs to be content.

It boggles my mind . why ? because i came from a very bad relationship.... i always get defensive and start to fight with a guy  just because i am too scared to get hurt again. i’m too headstrong, stupidly stubborn and tough. i like being tough though.. see that’s the other side of me, the other side is just too damn girly !

I love taking care of my man just like how a typical filipina takes care of her man. i don’t know... i seldom think about serious stuff and when that sometimes comes it will  really boggle my mind... i will think all the time, like 24/7...even in my sleep.it’s crazy ! anyways, right now i am feeling really optimistic. i think that men are not as complicated as we think they should be. men love to hear their women is happy and men deserve the same respect you would show a visitor in your home- even more. men love to be complimented.they also like to be admired. men are grumpy when they’re tired or hungry. men have dreams, too, and i guess it doesn't matter if it’s logical or not, women shouldn’t walk all over them or vice versa. GREAT MEN deserve all that.

We will always have problems in our relationships- everyone does- but i think that it’s a lot easier to work them out with a man who knows you love and respect him, and you should stay with a man who loves and respects you.  i am really feeling this right now. i friggin’ sound like an angel !  this is getting a bit long already. gotta go and cook dinner for my family !  latz peeps !!!