PAIN IS OUCHY ! --- BOW !

To even say ‘I love you’ can be frightening. But even if it’s painful and fearful to have an emotional interaction, still we keep going, we enter into a relationship.

In order to protect our emotional wounds, and because of our fear of being hurt, humans create something very sophisticated in the mind, a big denial system. In that denial system we become the perfect liars. We lie so perfectly that we lie to ourselves and we even believe our own lies. We don’t notice we are lying, and sometimes even when we know we are lying; we justify the lie and excuse the lie to protect ourselves from the pain of our wounds.

The denial system is like a wall of fog in front of our eyes that blinds us from seeing the truth. We wear a social mask because it’s too painful to see ourselves or to let others see us as we really are.

-------  BY ANGE FONCE

THE DENIAL SYSTEM THAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT HAS BEEN PRACTICED BY YOURS TRULY TO PROTECT HERSELF SINCE HER LAST RELATIONSHIP. I CALL IT *SELF-PRESERVATION !! 

*SELF-PRESERVATION IS SOME SORT OF AN ARMOR, A SHIELD TO PROTECT MYSELF FROM PAIN. BUT PAIN IS ESSENTIAL FOR PEOPLE TO KEEP GROWING AS MORTALS, IT KEEPS US STRONGER OR BETTER YET, WISER THAN EVER. 

 BUT I AM FULLY AWARE THAT I CAN NEVER RUN AWAY FROM IT, IT'S JUST TOO IMPOSSIBLE, UNLESS YOU'RE ALREADY DEAD. 

WHEN YOU'RE IN PAIN YOU HURT ! YOU WEEP !  YOU BLEED ! YOU HEAL ! (SOMETIMES HEALING TAKES A LONG TIME, OH YEAH !!!) AND FINALLY, YOU SCAR !

SCARS LAST FOREVER AND I BELIEVE THAT SCARS ARE PERFECT IMPERFECTIONS. i find it really sensual FOR IT SHOWS THE PERIOD OF HARDSHIPS THAT A PERSON HAD TO GO THROUGH, WHETHER IT BE PHYSICAL OR EMOTIONAL.

Like all living creatures, WE CAN HEAL FROM OUR PAINS and our SUFFERINGS. If we have a healthy environment, HEALTHY BEHAVIOURS, HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS, WE WILL RECOVER. THAT'S PART OF LIFE. IT'S JUST A CONTINUOUS CYCLE OF HAPPINESS, SADNESS, UPS, DOWNS, MADNESS, ET CETERA, ET CETERA. 

PEACE !

CK

  DON'T BE SAD....

BE GLAD !!!!!!!!

               

Its all part of the wonderful cycle of life ! So be sure to live it to the fullest and enjoy every bit of it !

the bad experiences can be learned from, it's probably the most important thing ! pain will toughen u up, it will definitely make you stronger !  pag nag kakalyo ka na, you'll learn how to shrug it off na =D